Waiting for @angel559 Sunday Funday!!!

Waiting for @angel559 Sunday Funday!!!


totally digging my curls!

totally digging my curls!


ninjasexfarty:

Important, always-relevant comic done by the wonderful Ursa Eyer.

(via curvecreation)



redbonegoddesses:

awesomeash:

I walked outside my apartment building to go to the store. I walked by this  pitch dark nook between my building and another. As I did, a deep voice came out of the nook and said “What’s up cutie?” I turned and seen two faceless men. I walked passed them as quick as I could. And that’s it. It might not seem that much to some, but it scared me. Why stay in the shadows at night and *cat call* to young females? I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable walking to a store that’s 3 minutes away. I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable to come back home. I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable being a female. And I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable PERIOD. As you you can see I wasn’t wearing anything *sexy* but that shouldn’t be a reason either. This isn’t the most uncomfortable I’ve been and sadly I will probably be uncomfortable tomorrow. Everyday (especially at night) I try to pick ill fitting clothes so men won’t yell or approach me. It’s ridiculous when a woman feels the need to dress in unflattering clothes to feel safe when she’s alone. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I know I can’t change it but I can talk about it. Every time I get harassed, I will document it on here. Maybe more people will see what a problem this is. 

You’re fine as fuck. Straight men—especially non-white straight men who aren’t shy and afraid of women—are going to try to talk to you. That isn’t going to change until you get old and lose your looks. Men are suppose to pursue women. If the woman in question doesn’t want to be bothered, then fine. But, it’s ridiculous and anti-straignt-male to expect men not to make the effort.

Making an effort is not a problem. The problem I have are with men who are disrespectful, like a man who calls a woman “silly bitch.” I’m assuming you’re a man. Two nights ago a guy followed me in his truck as I was walking. My disinterest was not enough, he felt the need to go up another street and keep talking to me there. When I passes his truck he felt the need to reverse to keep talking to me. Women should be able to walk around without getting harassed. There’s other more respectful ways to talk to women and stalking and/or following is not one of them. Maybe throw out a “hello, I’m ______ ” before you yell out what you think is a “compliment.”

redbonegoddesses:

awesomeash:

I walked outside my apartment building to go to the store. I walked by this  pitch dark nook between my building and another. As I did, a deep voice came out of the nook and said “What’s up cutie?” I turned and seen two faceless men. I walked passed them as quick as I could. And that’s it. It might not seem that much to some, but it scared me. Why stay in the shadows at night and *cat call* to young females? I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable walking to a store that’s 3 minutes away. I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable to come back home. I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable being a female. And I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable PERIOD. As you you can see I wasn’t wearing anything *sexy* but that shouldn’t be a reason either. This isn’t the most uncomfortable I’ve been and sadly I will probably be uncomfortable tomorrow. Everyday (especially at night) I try to pick ill fitting clothes so men won’t yell or approach me. It’s ridiculous when a woman feels the need to dress in unflattering clothes to feel safe when she’s alone. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I know I can’t change it but I can talk about it. Every time I get harassed, I will document it on here. Maybe more people will see what a problem this is. 

You’re fine as fuck. Straight men—especially non-white straight men who aren’t shy and afraid of women—are going to try to talk to you. That isn’t going to change until you get old and lose your looks. Men are suppose to pursue women. If the woman in question doesn’t want to be bothered, then fine. But, it’s ridiculous and anti-straignt-male to expect men not to make the effort.

Making an effort is not a problem. The problem I have are with men who are disrespectful, like a man who calls a woman “silly bitch.” I’m assuming you’re a man. Two nights ago a guy followed me in his truck as I was walking. My disinterest was not enough, he felt the need to go up another street and keep talking to me there. When I passes his truck he felt the need to reverse to keep talking to me. Women should be able to walk around without getting harassed. There’s other more respectful ways to talk to women and stalking and/or following is not one of them. Maybe throw out a “hello, I’m ______ ” before you yell out what you think is a “compliment.”


DAY THREE!
MY “DON’T BE A CREEP” FACE
So I walk to the store that is .20 miles from my house at about 10pm. As I was walking home and crossed this guy driving a truck which I had to walk in front “hollering” at me and I ignored him. He drove off slowly and I continued walking towards my street. As I turned on my street, that same guy was waiting for me at the other end! When he realized it was me he drove towards me to talk to me more. I said “No” “No, Thank you” “I’m not interested” but he still wouldn’t leave me alone. As I passed him he started reversing so he could still talk to me! I finally said “I’m married” and somehow that was a valid reason for him to leave. I had to lie to get him to leave me alone. Saying NO should be reason enough. Single or not, women deserve respect! Street harassment need to stop! 

DAY THREE!

MY “DON’T BE A CREEP” FACE

So I walk to the store that is .20 miles from my house at about 10pm. As I was walking home and crossed this guy driving a truck which I had to walk in front “hollering” at me and I ignored him. He drove off slowly and I continued walking towards my street. As I turned on my street, that same guy was waiting for me at the other end! When he realized it was me he drove towards me to talk to me more. I said “No” “No, Thank you” “I’m not interested” but he still wouldn’t leave me alone. As I passed him he started reversing so he could still talk to me! I finally said “I’m married” and somehow that was a valid reason for him to leave. I had to lie to get him to leave me alone. Saying NO should be reason enough. Single or not, women deserve respect! Street harassment need to stop! 


These guys were chillin on the steps behind my apartment #securityguards

These guys were chillin on the steps behind my apartment #securityguards



I’m pretty sure flawless was written about my second day hair. I honestly *woke up like dis* Get it curls! Do your thing!

I’m pretty sure flawless was written about my second day hair. I honestly *woke up like dis* Get it curls! Do your thing!


Day 2 out and about. Some elderly man stopped me to say I was beautiful and I was flattered because it’s like your grandfather telling you that. Then not even a minute later a man made eye contact with me and puckered he’s lips at me and winked. Ugh it just made me want to hit him in the face. Does that ever really work someone? Does anyone woman just get weak in the knees and jump and dude’s bones because of those suggestive facial expressions.  Note that my facial expression in this pic is my *i don’t know  some men are so gross*